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My name is Poe. I am a 29 year old, healthy, fairly intelligent, happily married man who has been formerly trained in the art of "Circular Reasoning." Some may call it playing devil's advocate, but to me - that's just arguing a position from the opposite view that you yourself believe or agree with. Circular reasoning, as read in the "Poe Dictionary," is the art or act of changing a person's view or perception without actually changing their mind. Sounds complicated, I know - but stick around and you will see what I mean.

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View Article  WWWDW
What Would We Do Wednesdays

Today's question comes from Mr. Fabulous:  Is it okay to keep secrets from your spouse?

This is a very good question, on the surface it has a very easy answer...  No - But that would depend on the individual's definition of "secret."

Is a surprise a secret?  I'm not talking about "Surprise!!!  I have another family in Texas!!"  I'm talking about a surprise birthday party or a surprise date night.  Those are more fun if kept secret until the time, but I think that is the heart of the matter.  I think there is nothing wrong with keeping a secret, IF there is a predetermined time and place that the secret will be revealed to and enjoyed by the person who didn't know.

The bottom line:  Openness and honesty are the best policies.

Find out what Sparks thought of the question!

Need advice?  Have a question?  What would we do?  Send a comment or email and ask!  Maybe you'll be featured next Wednesday!
View Article  SK8 or DIE

 OK....brief history, I have owned every system since the Comidor 64 with the exception of the Jaguar and Game Cube. I have played/wasted many many hours on BEBEBEBE BEEPS. I am now on Gamefly, its Netflicks for games and its awesome.....except people treat games worse then DVDs and most people don't treat DVDs great even when its theirs much less a rental, but I digress.

 I got Tony Hawks American Wastland. I am not sure what a "mid-life crisis" is but if its a 30 year old kid wanting to go out and get a skateboard to see what he can still do then this game has officially through me over that particular cliff. The game-play is crisp, fluid and easy to master without being stupid. I used to skate when I was in Junior High and this game has brought back some very cool memories.

 So anybody who had a ramp or 1/4 pipe in their backyard as a kid should check this one out.

 Plus........Boingo is on the sound track!

View Article  Us VS. Them

 I work for an Architectural Metals company, and we have 3 locations. One in Georgia, one in Arizona and mine here in California. I am the only "CADD guy" at this location. This is an interesting situation in and of itself because my direct supervisor is in Georgia.....so he is not only in a different state, but a different time-zone.

 This can create issues in many different areas, many that do not directly affect me. When I was first hired, I spent my first week in Georgia training. Over and over they expressed to me the "Us vs. Them" mentality and their desire for me not to get caught up in it. I think I have achieved this, but it is not the two way street it should be.

 First, I was running Auto CADD 200i while Georgia was on 2004. Without going in to much detail, in autocadd, you can open drawings created in a version older than yours, but not newer. So I would get drawings from clients, 2004 or higher, have to send them to Georgia so they could save down, then have them send them back for me to be able to open them. Our controller ( read acting C.F.O.) decided this was bullshit, which it was, and got me 2006. It never reached my excited, eager little hands. Why you might ask? ...because when Georgia got wind of this, it was re-routed to them, and one of the 2004's were sent to me instead.

 Not happy, but neither was C.F.O. guy.  It was around this time he got us on a subscription so we received the lattest version when it came out...  ALL of us.  But this is not an us vs. them thing.  My ass!

Since then, I have gotten more RAM, a new printer, a new chair and when our IT person heard it took my computer 15 min. to get to where I could open any programs.... a new computer. The subject of software was brought up and I suggested a 3-D program. SUGGESTED. You would think I was asking for a company car! In the hours that followed; my boss, the VP of design (his boss) and D. (not related to our department) had talked to our new C.F.O. all saying NO NO NO NO! Why? Not because it would not be beneficial to everything I do, but because I would have it and not them.

But its NOT an us. vs. them thing........MY ASS!