What Would We Do Wednesdays

Today's question comes from Mr. Fabulous:  Is it okay to keep secrets from your spouse?

This is a very good question, on the surface it has a very easy answer...  No - But that would depend on the individual's definition of "secret."

Is a surprise a secret?  I'm not talking about "Surprise!!!  I have another family in Texas!!"  I'm talking about a surprise birthday party or a surprise date night.  Those are more fun if kept secret until the time, but I think that is the heart of the matter.  I think there is nothing wrong with keeping a secret, IF there is a predetermined time and place that the secret will be revealed to and enjoyed by the person who didn't know.

The bottom line:  Openness and honesty are the best policies.

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