What Would We Do Wednesdays
Today's question comes from Mr. Fabulous: Is it okay to keep secrets from your spouse?
This is a very good question, on the surface it has a very easy answer... No - But that would depend on the individual's definition of "secret."
Is a surprise a secret? I'm not talking about "Surprise!!! I have another family in Texas!!" I'm talking about a surprise birthday party or a surprise date night. Those are more fun if kept secret until the time, but I think that is the heart of the matter. I think there is nothing wrong with keeping a secret, IF there is a predetermined time and place that the secret will be revealed to and enjoyed by the person who didn't know.
The bottom line: Openness and honesty are the best policies.
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